Keep Parents in the Loop while Away at School

Leaving for college can be a difficult time, not just for the student but the parents as well. Keeping your parents informed about your life is extremely helpful in making the transition smoothly.

If you are still dependent on your parents financially, then you may need to keep your parents in the loop more than someone who is out on their own. Also, if you are planning on returning home during breaks you’ll need to keep the lines of communication open.

Being surrounded by so many new influences can make keeping in touch with parents difficult, but it’s important to your relationship.

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Keep in Touch

It’s important to call or email your parents at least once a week just to say hello. While this may not seem like a big deal to you, it will make your parents happy to know that you are taking a few minutes out of your busy schedule to keep in touch.

They will also like to hear about how you like school and the different experiences you are having. Just focus more on the trip to the art museum rather than the awesome parties you and your roommate throw.

Tell Them About Your Problems

If you are having a hard time at school, it’s nice to have someone to talk to about it. Who better to reassure you about life than mom and dad? This will keep a bond between you and your parents active and they will feel less like they are losing their baby.

You don’t even have to tell them about any major problems. Get your mom to send you her macaroni and cheese recipe, or get your dad to explain how to fix a clogged toilet. This way, your parents will feel like you still need them around even if you are doing fine on your own.

Keep Them Informed About Your Grades

While it might be difficult to tell your parents that you are flunking a class, if they are paying for all or part of your tuition it will be necessary. They will need to save the money to pay for you to retake classes or pay for a tutor if necessary.

On the other hand, if you are doing well in your classes, go ahead and brag! Parents love to hear about their children’s successes.

Going to college is a great way to gain independence, but it can also make your parents feel like you are growing apart. By doing a few simple things to keep in touch, your parents will feel needed and it will also make your life easier.